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Dating a woman who is legally separated

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People often wonder about dating someone who is separated—not officially divorced. Read this email I received from a reader who is having problems in online dating because he is separated—not officially divorced. I have been separated for over a year, with young kids I have half the time.

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My divorce is amicable and I maintain a good relationship with my ex. The divorce should be final in September.

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I also went on a date with a really cool girl and had a great time. I mean, WTF…she knew this already! I even skipped grad school class to go on the date. There are many possible reasons people have issues with dating someone who is separated—not officially divorced: Here is how I feel:.

Now, one would think I would be totally against dating someone who is separated and not divorced yet, basically because I have done it a few times, and one time I got pretty badly burned. A guy I was seeing who was separated—not divorced was still sleeping with his ex.

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I found out years later, but it still hurt like hell. That said, I still feel like dating someone who is separated is no worse than dating someone who is recently divorced or for that matter, divorced.

The thing is, every divorce story is different, every situation unique. I think that people later in life make commitments of the heart, and whether or not they are monogamous has nothing to do with a divorce decree.

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He is going to be officially divorced in September, so what is the difference in one month? During the next 30 days is he going to all of a sudden become ready to date? Over his divorce just because he will have a piece of paper that says he is no longer married?


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